"I can't stop crying thinking about it."


Hey Reader,

My phone buzzed while I was out walking my golden retriever, Kona, and my son, Jagger.

It was a message from my client Karla. She's tackling her first triathlon, an Ironman 70.3.

Her message stopped me right in the middle of the street.

"I am terrified!" she wrote. "I know you say to live in the moment and not worry about the future. But I can't stop crying thinking about it."

I stood there and looked down into little Jagger's eyes.

My heart sank a bit. I knew that one day, he'd face those exact same fears.

Honestly, I felt that exact same knot in my stomach before my first Ironman. I remembered the frigid water, the fogged up goggles, and the sheer panic of feeling like I was going to drown.

I pulled out my phone and recorded a voice note for Karla.

"You're feeling exactly the right way," I told her. "You got this!"

The reason I share this with you is because we often mistake fear for a stop sign.

When we attempt something we've never done, that fear can feel completely crippling. But that discomfort is actually your unfair advantage.

If you can navigate the storm of fear, something beautiful lies on the other side.

The difference between someone who succeeds and someone who stays stuck isn't the absence of fear. It's taking action despite the fear.

And that brings me to the successful clients I want to recognize today.

These people are going somewhere they've never gone. They've come to terms with fear. They don't look at it as a negative, but as a positive way to uplevel their lives.

What goals or aspirations are hiding in your life right now disguised as fear?

Don't shy away from the discomfort.

Lean into it.

Let's make it happen.


LivFit 365 High-Performers

Please take a moment to recognize the outstanding achievers who are building high-performance human systems.

Jesse Galeana

Jesse and his wifey are crushing the Life Game. Averaging over 25,000 steps together proves building elite health is a total family mission.

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She's kicking off a new year by anchoring her nervous system. Staying perfectly present to enjoy her beautiful family is the ultimate superpower.

Glanda Phan

Talk about cracking the code. Celebrating a full year of commitment means she's finally solved the lifelong health puzzle that kept her guessing.

Kim Travis

She just keeps going deeper. Peeling back the rusted layers to uncover her original brilliance proves her true powerhouse self was always waiting.

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The commitment queen's ruling her domain. Using the breath to minimize daily eruptions maximizes her love and cements her as an incredible mother.

Fred Ghamari

Fred's officially claiming the ultimate dad title. Becoming completely fit and radically present makes him a legendary role model for all fathers.

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Yes Ordorica

She's putting her physiology on autopilot. Using physical anchors (clever sticky notes) to systematize her diaphragmatic breathing guarantees she owns the Breathing Room every single day.

Mike Celeya

Practice makes permanent. Building massive awareness through daily reps is transforming him into a resilient guy he never dreamed he could become.

Colleen Smith

She always steps up for others. Now she's flipping the script by redirecting that fierce commitment to completely deliver for herself.

Mitch Moshe

Chaos cannot touch this guy. Despite massive hurdles he's architecting Mitch v2026 as the absolute best version of himself yet.

Pooneh Mashadi

Life keeps swinging but she never folds. Maintaining unwavering optimism while finally prioritizing herself proves her internal hardware is built incredibly tough.

Karla Ceja

She's slaying dragons left and right! Conquering personal demons to sign up for an impossible race shows her mental engine is fully primed.

Carol Gorelick

They gave her a grim forecast but she refused to listen. Leveraging our functional whole body approach provides the exact blueprint to defy the odds.


LivFit 365 Family Fitness Coaching

Please welcome my new families.

Your success is why I exist. I promise to do my absolute best to ensure you succeed.

Alex Flores - Oz Gokhan

Welcome to the LivFit Fam. I'm grateful to serve you.


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Systems > Willpower,

Tony Arreola

Human Systems Engineer™ | LivFit 365™

P.S. I don't know about this school thing. Jagger (2 years old) has been going for days now, and he still can't read or write ... 😕